Appreciation

I have noticed
That everyone is dying for appreciation
They kind of live in an imaginary world
Where they make a web
They appreciate each other
And feel ,yes,we are doing great job
They are kind of frog in a well
They don’t want to come out of their periphery
As they have fear
That they may be rebuked
May be criticised
Those who can’t take criticism
Are actually most weak
They are like birds without wings
Appreciation has no value
Criticism is great
But Ah ! Very few can take it
Appreciation is sugar
Sugar kills .

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53 thoughts on “Appreciation

  1. Here in Nigeria, we have an adage that says “when u appreciate small gesture, you will get bigger favors. Appreciation move you to do move but criticism makes you better than you are.

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    1. I agree ,appreciation is generally kind of sycophantic behaviour

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  2. What if someone has done something good,should he not be appreciated?

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    1. Who will decide ,its good ,here again same group, same people ,look at the comments on any pic ,blog ,nice written ,awesome ,because 99% are dumb ,they don’t know what is good ,they have herd mentality .

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      1. We have a conscience,Good will be,if a child scores 90% marks in 10th class,should he not be appreciated? He should be.
        If a woman becomes a pilot,officer etc,should she not be appreciated?She should be.
        If a person feeds a poor person,should he not be appreciated?he should be.
        If your parents work hard for you,earn money,take care of you,love you,should they not be appreciated? They should be.
        See,appreciation is the biggest tool in your hand,you can win over the world by appreciation,these are tested facts,you cannot deny.You can win anyone’s heart through appreciation.Whom you appreciate,will respect you.Im not saying fake appreciation but authentic appreciation is very important and must be done.
        You went to a party,liked the arrangements? appreciate the host.
        If your teacher helped you study well,appreciate her.
        If a minister does something to better the society,appreciate him.
        Appreciation is very powerful.

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      2. Hey the situations you mentioned are really appreciable but a/q to me they are more than appreciation.

        Like a diamond never wish that someone called it diamond, it is never the matter either people accept that as a diamond or not. Because true value of diamond is known to all.

        Appreciation is really a good tool even i love to be appreciated but up to an extent because more than the limit seems fake.

        Gud day ahead☺☺

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      3. Bit valid point mahima diamond stays diamond no matter its appreciated or not .

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      4. Yeah that is what i meant to say..appreciation not always matters

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      5. Mahima,with all respect to your verdict,i’d ask you,you said that diamond does not need to be called a diamond,its value is known to all,it doesnt matter if it is acknowleged or not.Suppose,if you make a birthday card for your mother,you give it to her,and she does not say even once that mahima i appreciate ur effort,i loved it.How will you feel? Bad? right?
        your mom would think that mahima knows that she has put in effort for me and she has made a good card,i dont need to say it…then what?
        This is not the way human psychology works yar.Apprciation is very important.Great authors like Robin sharma,shiv khera have written this in their books,its a fact…Why to deny?

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      6. Who said i am denying, i already said appreciation is a great tool. Like being emotional is good but being a emotional fool is worse.

        Appreciation indeed is a good thing but up to an extent.

        Coming to the example you gave, i had writtens two posts on my mom but she had not read even one of them but it never means she does not appreciate me. I know she did. I do not know much about human psychology but as much as i know like i could feel love, we could feel genuine appreciation.

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      7. I don’t reply you intentionally ,as you are very immature ,over that you argue with baseless logics ,a student can get 90% still he may be a dumb ,I know many such , feeding a poor has nothing to do with appreciation ,I feed 50 poor daily ,need no appreciation ,like I can defy all your examples , this world is here in ruins because of appreciation

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      8. I am not here to argue with strangers who dont know an iota about what i am.Unfollowing you.I dont need negativity in my life,you are full of it.

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  3. Apprecition and criticism are like good and bad time. Good time gives us happiness and bad time gives experience in the same way when we are being appreciated, it is good for us but for sure we have to take criticism also. It helps us grow.

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    1. Appreciation is generally sycophantic

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      1. Its a quote ” Excess of anything is bad”. Appreciation up to an extent, i found good but as my mamma says sometimes on the name of appreciation, we are fooled and i found her right manytimes.

        Criticism is always welcomed but it depend how the person takes it. Its really hard to accept that as i already mentioned and you already know ” Reality are harsh most of the times”.

        Like good, bad exist. Like god, evil exist. Like appreciation, criticism exists.

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      2. Your mother is right ,I won’t name ,but yes there are people in your group ,blog one who are absolutely fools ,I have read their psychology.

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      3. For me, mamma is right most of the times☺☺

        If you do not mind then would you plz let me know about my psychology..

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      4. Need to go ,will revert once free ,again one personal question ,is your spine OK ,just need yes or no

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      5. OK I was worried regarding it

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      6. Do not worry, luckily i do not have problme regarding to spine.

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      7. Still I advise you to be careful regarding ,spine ,legs and stomach ,intestines

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      8. I will take care. I can not say stomach but inside that there are many things that are going wrong with me.

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      9. How is your iron composition in blood ,haemoglobin

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      10. Sometimes less than the normal range and sometime in between the range.

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      11. I asked you about my psychology, if you do not mind, let me know.

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      12. You never asked ,but I feel you are ethical ,most importantly, bit confused regarding your Indian origin and western influence , try to be modern , you are not meant to be , spiritual , family baby

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      13. I asked if you could see earlier in your comments.

        Well you found me right up to an extent☺☺

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      14. Family baby..this was really the point that makes me smile.

        Its really hard to figure out but you did☺☺

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      15. I respect you, your job, your ethics☺

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      16. Thanks ,I generally don’t tell people regarding all this even if they are willing to pay my fees ,as I only work when I find person genuine ,else I refuse to meet

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      17. If you do not mind, then can you plz tell me from where you are?

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      18. I am born and brought up in Delhi

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      19. Ooo so you are from delhi and we can assume a meeting, for my check ups i visit delhi.

        I would try my best to get a chance to consult you, because i really wanted to meet someone who is a life coach.

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      20. Hopefully if I have time ,when you visit Delhi

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      21. Need to go ,work ,take care

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      22. Okk.

        You too take care and that is more important, you being a life coach need more care because you care for others.

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      23. Very caring comment indeed

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      24. When i really do..you can see through my words and actions☺☺

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      25. You won’t do it for long time ,as my harsh comments will irritate you , as I am like this who call a spade ,spade

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      26. Being honest, sometimes i am like you.

        Trust me i irritate those who cares for me, i irriate them to an extent that is unbearable still they do not stop caring as they like me.

        May be i would not get irritated by your harsh comment. They let me know you views. Two persons, two thinking yes they can lead to conflicts but it never matter just keep sharing your perspective and i would share mine.

        May be there would be some time our thinking would met, may be it would not but in both the situation i will show my care if i felt to do so.

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      27. No need to say thanx as what i said was directly from my heart.

        It is my pleasure indeed.

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      28. I know ,else won’t have interacted this much

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  4. If you do not mind then can you please read your post once again, there are some slight mistakes if possible correct them☺☺

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    1. Thanks ,I guess I have done it ,it was intentional as to see how many actually read it properly and have guts to point it out as criticism is invited .

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      1. You are welcome and yes you have done.

        So i read it properly, either i do not read and if i do i read properly.

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      2. This is what I like you for ,you may not know but I don’t only read blogs or posts ,I actually read person who is writing it .

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      3. Its means a lot that you like me for something as you seem harsh to me . Getting liked by same nature person is obvious but with completely different thoughts and nature is really very meaningful.

        Thank you☺

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      4. I am like this to everyone but more harsh to those whom I like ,as diamonds can’t be polished without being harsh ,so if I am extra harsh means I am extra careful and wants extra from those special ones .

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      5. Nothing to say just obliged☺

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