Monthly Archives: November 2015

Naked

Naked, it sounds very uncivilized
It sounds very horny
It sounds very seductive
Actually except homo sapiens
Everyone is naked
We were born naked
We are still born naked
Early man was naked
Then we became civilized
We started covering ourselves
Its not clothing
Its actually a hindrance
We wear clothes
It inhibits
It stops us from being what we are
As we are scared
We will never disclose
Our true identity
What all dark things do we have
We hide a lot
Because we are scared
Scared of society
What if they know ,my thoughts
My grudges ,my lust
We are fake
We are afraid
The moment you dare to bare
You won’t be any more scared
Scared of society
As now nothing to hide
No reputation left
No fake identities
Then you can say what you feel
I feel everyone should have guts
To go naked
Not only without clothes
But without your fake identities
False reputation
Its difficult
But its a practise
Which will make you light
It will unburned you

Ajay Kohli

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Possessive

I am happy I am not married
No wife ,no kids
As I am very possessive
Its a kind of problem
I can’t allow my dear ones to do something
Where I am insecure about them
For me their safety is prime
This leads to be overprotective
It appears as a hindrance
As I don’t allow them travelling alone
Its like curbing their freedom
My idea is safety
But not everyone can understand this
To an extent its right on their part too
I am possessive its my fault
Why they should suffer
Still I do have few people
For whom I am very protective
Possessive rather
To them I can only request
Do take care of yourselves
As I am legally or otherwise
Not entitled to restrict you
But I am really concerned about you
It will be a problem if ever I find you in problem
I won’t pray to god for this
As he won’t come to protect
Its about you and me
I can suggest
I can request
Rest I guess I am helpless
But yes I am worried
I want you safe
I want you in front of us
Its impractical
Its immature
You have your dreams
But I am helpless

Ajay Kohli

Authentic

Very often I read things
Net  is full of knowledge
You Google
And you will find innumerable post on particular topic
Everyone is trying to prove his knowledge
They are giving references
I do read
But I never take that reading to my soul
I can never do what is already done
Where is authenticity
Everyone is doing copy paste
Or some editing
I rarely find genuine authentic stuff
Its all like fed in your brains
Its not actual knowledge
Its cramming
Come with what your soul says
Be authentic

Ajay Kohli

Strange

I am really surprised
The way companies hire
They hold interviews
Group discussion
Go through your qualification
If it was the procedure
I guess Newton ,Einstein ,Edison
All would have failed
How stupid companies are
They are actually judging you
On your two page resume
10 minutes group discussion
10 min personal interview
You can’t sum up a person in 30 min
Every individual has huge capabilities
Depending on opportunities and circumstances
He may prove himself
A plant meant for desert will never bloom in frigid zone
So is true for vice versa
You can’t grow cardamom in Norway
I feel the biggest problem with recruiters
Is this mindset
Every one is in rush
I guess HR should be psychologist
Who can judge every attribute of candidate
We need a change
Change in mindset

Ajay Kohli

Love

No matter where or when
People were against love from ages
It doesn’t make any difference
If you are in Asia ,America ,Europe etc
Psychology behind this is
Insecurity !
Sometimes your parents feel insecure
Sometimes your friends
Sometimes enemies
But path of love was never smooth
It always had faced opposition from society
Major disputes ,wars happened
Because of love actually
Friendship broken
Enmity surfaced
Love was never easy
It won’t be
Its kind of game
Which is designed by nature
To divert attention
To mess lives
You can’t reject it
Society will never accept it

Ajay Kohli

Back

I never ever imagined to be in future
I don’t know
I don’t feel comfortable
Even if I try
I find it disturbing
I want to go back
Let’s say 100 years back
Where there was no pollution
Where there were enough open spaces
To roam
Where there were no motorised vehicles
Where life was slow
Where there was more interaction
With your relatives ,friends,neighbours
Where there was less or no pretention
Where value of relationship was more than money
Where there were no deadlines
Where there was no cut throat competition
Where there was peace
Where people value people
Where air was fresh ,water was pure
Without air fresheners and water purifiers
I wish if I could go back

Ajay Kohli

Follow

I sometimes wonder
What exactly is psychology behind following
Many do as they feel that
Whom they follow will follow them back
Few do as they want to show they are active
Other do to show their concern
Few do to impress their boss
Few do to show they love their relationships
Others don’t have any reason
Still they do
There are political followers
Surprised why people follow any actor
What will they get by following lady gaga
Or Madonna ,Beyonce etc
I guess its kind of psychological disorder
Very few are there who actually
Read ,understand ,analyse
And follow ,they are real admirers
I guess I may annoy few
But I still say
Don’t follow or like blindly
Read and understand
Then if you really like
Then follow

Ajay Kohli

Thank you

I am thankful to you
You came into my life
You made me think
That love is there
You made me more sensitive
The way you moulded me
Never expected it
Then you walked away
That was the real blessings
I understood how you manipulated things
I learnt manipulation from you
You taught me how weak relationships are
So now I am no more sensitive
You taught me not to get serious about relationship
You taught me its not important to be committed
All this helped me a lot
To be a practical person
Who now can face this world
With more practical approach
Thanks for being such practical teacher

Ajay Kohli

Champion

My dad gets up in the morning
He is hungry
He has logic
Whole night he didn’t eat any thing
Then he eats ,first thing in the mornings
He goes to washroom then
He comes out
Again he is hungry
He has logic
He has excreted everything
So eats again
Then he goes for walk
He comes back ,eats again
He has logic
He spent energy in walking
He then goes for breakfast
After sometimes he is again hungry
Its pre lunch now
Then lunch
He sleeps then
He wakes up hungry again
He eats again
Then its supper time
Then dinner
Before sleeping he needs to eat
He has logic
What if I feel hungry
During sleep
So actually its me who is working out
And do all household chores
But its him who is champion
He eats on my behalf too
Great going dad

Ajay Kohli

Ages

When I was a kid
I was bit naughty
More interested in sports
Less focused on studies
By the time I became an adolescent
I learnt to manage sports and studies
By the time I was an adult
I lost interest in studies
I never understood
How differentiation and integration
Will help me in life
Or how mathematical induction
Or Kirchoff law will solve my problems in life
Still it was my course
I did manage to do well
Though I started being rebel
I was never comfortable in college
I wanted to study something practical
Unfortunately I couldn’t find any
I got into psychology
That too not theoretical
Pavlov or Freud type
I learnt life is about relationship
So I started focussing on that
By the time I reached thirty
I found life is more about money
When I was 35 I found its only about money
If you don’t have money ,no one value you
No matter how talented you are
How giving and caring you are
At 40 I feel life is about manipulation
Its about fooling others
Its about get your work done
Love ,affection ,care its very bookish
Actually its money ,manipulation ,that matters

Ajay Kohli